8 signs that show a girl will fall for you
Hey guys. Today on relationships, we’ll be taking a look at 10 ways to know if a girl will fall for you even when it doesn’t seem so.
It’s not uncommon to see some girls testing a guy before eventually falling for them. In this case, the guy will be so unsure if the girl will eventually date him or not.
Though some guys who haven’t experience this will find this to be untrue. However, most women do test men consciously and unconsciously before agreeing to date them.
Some might ask, why stress a guy when you know you’ll eventually agree to be his girlfriend? Well, there are many reasons why a girl will do that. These includes:
- They want to be sure they are not making a mistake by rushing into a relationship with a random stranger.
- Some have had to deal with a toxic relationship in the past, so they have to be extra careful so that history doesn’t repeat itself.
- They want to check the level of the man’s patience. If you truly want something/someone, you won’t give up on them easily.
- Since most guys happen to be only interested in sex, she’ll need more time to be convinced you are not only there for the body.
However, there is a huge difference between when a girl is testing you and when she is not interested in anything you have to offer. You should do well to know the difference so you won’t end up wasting your time. Having said all that, let’s take a look at the 10 top signs that a woman you are chasing is only testing you.
8 signs that she is testing you and will eventually fall for you
She gives you reasons for not showing up
This is a very easy way to know that a girl is interested in you. Ever invited a girl over or to have lunch and she doesn’t show up? If yes, the aftermath will let you know what she thinks of you. If she doesn’t call to apologize or at least give you a reason for not showing up, Bro, look for a new girl. A girl who might be interested in you will give you reasons.
She seems close and far away at the same time
Have you ever been in a position where you think a girl is yours already, only for her to give you cold shoulders the next minutes? She’s just testing you, Bro. If you truly have her at heart, you’ll push harder. She most likely doesn’t want to appear too cheap so she won’t be taken for granted. She wants you to have the feeling that you worked extra hard to get her, not one you get effortlessly. So, I’ll advise you don’t give up on the chase, she’s just testing you.
She pays attention to your relationship with others
Not an obvious trait, but a girl who’s testing you does pay attention. She’ll take note of the way you talk to others, and also treat others. This will tell her a lot about you more than the things you say to her. If you treat people in a way that contradicts what she stands for, it’s more likely that you’ll lose her. Be careful, how you treat other people in front of the girl you are chasing.
She’s sometimes rude over nothing
This is a sign that a girl is testing you. In this case, she’s testing your anger level and how you react when provoked. Any girl who plans on going into a long-lasting relationship with any man will have to test how he manages his anger. No girl will want to get a black eye for any slight offences committed.
She asks for your assistance
Though financial assistance can be included here, that’s not the point here. She asks for assistance over little things she could easily do herself. Things like escorting her to run some little errands etc. Some of her requests may seem ridiculous, but it’s best you do not decline because she is already falling for you.
She asks about your past relationship
A girl who might want to date you will ask about your past relationship. Most times, it’s aimed at knowing what went wrong in your last relationship and most especially, how long it lasted. A girl who plans on going on a long-lasting relationship will be disappointed if all your relationships lasted for 2 weeks, 2 months etc.
She asks about your future/goals
This is a sign that if she might be in that future. So, she’ll want to know what kind of goals you’ve set for yourself if at all she wants to be in that future of yours. Does it really matter now? No. But if it ends up as a serious relationship, she wants to know what she’s getting herself into.
She opens up to you every now and then
We all know that women are a lot different than men. Women care a lot about the little things if they are growing feelings for you. However, men in most cases will tend to care less about those things, no matter how deeply they care for someone.
When a woman tests you and is trying to find out how much she means to you, she’ll tell you a lot about herself. Loads of information might be given out which might seem irrelevant to you. This information includes her favourite colour, the name of her first pet, or favourite childhood memory.
These are the things you have to remember to pass this test. It is a sign that you listen to her attentively during conversations. Lastly, don’t dare forget her birthday.
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