Signs To Know That She Is The One
It can be really hard to really tell which woman will be worth your time, take you all the way and be there for you as you desire.
Although it is true we’re all human, and we all stand a chance of disappointing each other in one way or the other. But I believe that if you identify these nine signs in a woman or at least a good number of them in a woman, chances are she will make a good partner and you should definitely marry her.
1. Intellectually Challenging
She should be someone who is intellectually challenging for you.
Looks are great, but they’re fleeting. All these beauties are going to fade one day and there must be something else going for her and usually, it’s her personality.
I feel like a personality will last forever. And so if you’re looking for a woman who will do better by your side, we’ll be able to engage you throughout, especially when the love begins to fade for once.
So you should definitely look for someone intellectually stimulating, who can challenge your opinion, who you actually enjoy engaging with and having very intelligent discourse with, because, at the end of the day, two heads are better than one.
You should never compromise on the power of intellect and the power of a woman who can contribute in various ways to your business, to your life, to your future, and your dreams.
if you guys intellectually connect, I would say that she’s a woman for you.
2. Emotionally Consistent
Is she emotionally consistent? don’t get me wrong on this one. I’m not talking about her mood swings when it’s that time of the month. Not at all. Because it happens to even the best of us, where at that time of the month you just rather not engage, you’d rather stay by yourself. And, at that moment your hormones can play a large role in just how you respond to people. But I’m not even talking about that per se.
I’m talking about a woman who isn’t emotionally volatile. Volatile in the sense that one minute she wants this and the next minute she doesn’t, she can’t make up her mind, a lot of her decisions are being taken from an emotional point as opposed to an intellectual point.
It’s more from her heart all the time and never from the head. Such people can put you in debt even before you realize it because when it comes to making very important decisions like purchasing something for your home, you would find her more often than not making decisions from the heart when maybe from the head it would have been like a better benefit to you.
3. Good Empathizer
From the dictionary, empathy talks of someone who can put themselves in your shoes and feel what you feel and understand things from your point of view.
Now, this is really important because you need to get someone who really understands the way you function, the way you think, why you make the decisions the way that you do, and so much more.
If she is completely disconnected from you in terms of your expectations, and how you feel about certain things, she could be a liability in the long run, to you, your business, your success, and even to your children.
So, you want to be able to get a woman who can show support and who can be there for you and understand where you’re coming from.
What can you say about her honesty with you and with others?
There is nothing as bad as being with a dishonest partner. For certain, you should already know just how important it is to have someone you can trust especially in a relationship.
To know that this lady is going to be there for you whether you are in town and available or not, is she going to be faithful to you when you are out if perhaps the business will take you out of the country. Is this woman going to stay with you? Is she going to be by your side? Is she going to be your champion and a steady supporter? If the answer is no, then maybe she is not the one for you.
But if you find an honest woman, someone who is honest in her dealings, speech, finances, and every single aspect of her life, or at least most aspects of her life, because we’re all not perfect, then you should go for her.
The truth is, She should be honest with you, even when it’s difficult to do. Honesty is important. It’s an invaluable asset in today’s world.
She should be someone with ambition. Although, a lot of women demand that kind of thing from men, as in, they’ll only find you attractive if you are an ambitious guy. I think that a lot of men need to start to demand the same from women as well. And I say that simply because in today’s world, we need a little more than just one individual bringing home the cheese every single day to be successful.
To be clear, if you find a woman who had zero ambition where her whole life goal was just to get married and then sits back and watch you take care of her, then you have a problem.
And you know this, you’re not always going to be up on the hill. There are days when you will be down in the valleys and you need a woman who has her own drive and ambition to succeed.
You need someone who can think like you when you’re saying “babe, I think we should go into this venture or start a business together”. She should be able to meet you halfway and say “hey, I’ve actually been thinking about it because you know, X, Y, and Z are what I did and I think this kind of business if we go into it will be more profitable, and it will be sustainable as well”.
6. Self Improvement
You should find a woman who is interested in improving herself and proving that she’s interested in personal development and wants to up her game in life and not just sit down and be spoon-fed and rely on you all the time. I think that’s a keeper.
You know, In today’s world, the minute you stop learning you’re going to get obsolete or grow obsolete very fast because information is changing. And she really needs to just get with the times if she’s going to be of benefit to you and your kids in the future.
So that’s something I want you to pay attention to critically because there’s nothing like investing in personal development.
If you’re a woman or if you’re with a woman who’s not interested in any of these, you might find yourself in a rut, because one day down the line when you’re going through one of the deepest valleys you will ever find in your career or your life, she won’t be there for you, She can’t support you in any other way because she has no skill and she has never tried to improve on any skill or tried to be better. she has just been happy staying married to you and having your children at the end of the day.
Ask yourself. If you’re not there today, has she proved herself capable in the same way you are doing to keep your family going?
7. She’s Not Petty
Don’t get this wrong. Some amount of jealousy is actually healthy for a relationship because at the end of the day you want to know if your partner is afraid to lose you.
However, some people are just petty about the littlest of things and the things that do not matter and do not count. Being with a woman like that can be difficult.
It will be difficult because she’s going to make you grow older, faster. If she’s someone who is, let’s say, not only jealous and petty, but also not ambitious, and hence has nothing going for herself when you’re gone for all your corporate gigs or your corporate events. And this is the woman who is calling you constantly or wants to tag along unnecessarily even when the meeting is supposed to be with just you and your higher-ups. She wants to be there because she doesn’t trust you. She’s jealous, maybe she can’t stand the fact that your boss’s a woman and you’re close to her and you need to be doing all these odd hours with her from time to time, then that kind of a woman can become an impediment when it comes to your growth.
So you want to avoid being with that kind of a woman because it’s just simply not workable. And over time, she’s going to drain you for everything that you have.
8. She Makes an Effort
Another sign that she’s the one you should marry is that She makes an effort with you.
What I mean is that you can tell that she’s working on this relationship for it to be beneficial, for it to grow and be established.
So the moment you can tell that this woman is making an effort to be with you. I think that you should keep her and definitely marry her. Your joy should be her joy, Your sadness should be her sadness, What keeps you up at night should keep her up at night as well. If you know what I mean.
if you get a woman who puts in the effort to make your relationship work and puts in the effort to let you know that she cares so much about you and is interested in your welfare. This is definitely a woman that you can build your life with.
9. Inspires You To Be Better
Finally, you want to also find out if she inspires you to be a better person. Yes, if she inspires you to be a better person, wife her.
Honestly, you have to marry her because it’s hard to find real these days. If you find a woman who makes you want to be greater because in herself she’s a force to reckoned with And you realize that if you don’t pull your weight in a couple of years, she’s going to be right on top there and you’re going to be stuck where you are, you know if you find that kind of woman who just makes you want to be better in every single aspect of your life. I think that this is a woman that you should take seriously.
In the journey of life, There are these people that you meet in your life who just inspire you to achieve because they’re not lazy bumps themselves. They are people who want to change the world. And they start with themselves and they spread that kind of authenticity around.
So if you find that kind of a woman, I’m telling you, she’s the one for you.