4 proper stages of a relationship that leads to marriage
Hi guys. Today on relationship matters, we’ll be taking a look at the 4 correct stages of a relationship that is common to all couples.
All sexual relationship known to man – be it marriage or boyfriend/girlfriend relationships has stages common to both if it must work out.
These various stages/stages as the case may be is what we’ll be looking at today. Without much ado, let’s take a look at the 4 proper stages of a relationship we must all follow.
4 proper stages of a relationship you must follow if you want to get married
This is the stage you start getting attracted to someone who is also attracted to you.
You get to know each other better; find out his/her likes or dislikes, hubby and what they find fun.
The only way you can know these things is by constant discussion and spending time together.
Therefore, going on dates is very essential in this stage.
The purpose of this stage is to find out if you want to date that person or not.
Also, it is in this stage both of you become close friends if you weren’t close friends before.
Unlike the first stage where everything is rosy and you feel you guys were made for each other, in this stage, you’ll start seeing things you don’t like about the other person.
In this stage, you start misunderstanding each other and you’ll have to find ways to compromise when need be.
However, there are critical things in this stage that will bring an end to the relationship.
These things are obviously not your fault.
These things include genotype that doesn’t match, different religion etc.
This is the aftermath of the storming stage.
You start dating properly knowing that negligence in either/both of you is what can end the relationship.
In this stage, you technically crossed all the hurdles in a relationship.
Also, it’s in this stage that both families must have probably accepted you both.
This is the stage you both start planning for marriage and both of you eventually get married.
In this stage, you guys start enjoying your marriage.
People will admire your marriage not knowing the struggle you both went through to get there.
It is important to know that dating and courting are two different things. Dating is the stage you both are meant to know each other, finding things about each other. Better still, it’s a stage you guys still have to prove to each other that the love is real.
On the other hand, courting is when both of you officially start a relationship that will lead to marriage.
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