10 Sure Signs To Know A Girl Likes You
Most guys and even girls will agree with me that getting to know if a girl likes you is probably one of the most difficult things on earth. It is characterized by frustration, impatience and nervous breakdown.
The problem is compounded when the girl is your crush or spec and you are scared of being friend-zoned. You have probably been driven crazy a numerous number of times I believe.
In this article, we would examine the sure signs that confirm a girl likes a guy. These are signs they make unconsciously or consciously.
These signs are very much different from the random signs a lady may give her male friend. These are the real deal, and we shall examine them as well as examples.
10 Sure Signs that confirms a girl likes you
She says yes to outings with you
When a girl likes a guy, she doesn’t have second thoughts in accepting an invitation to an outing with that guy except she is genuinely preoccupied.
Truth be told, girls don’t like spending time with a guy they dislike or aren’t interested in. Yes, they may say yes to some invitations with this guy, but when it becomes often, they begin to develop funny excuses which more often than not are obviously false excuses.
However, if a girl likes you and you ask her for an outing, a sharp yes will be your answer.
John: Hey Mary, will you like to hang out tomorrow?
Mary: Definitely, I would love to ❤.
And if she was already booked, her reply will be:
“I really would have love to John, but I’m already booked by tomorrow, but I will be free next tomorrow“.
Notice that she was the one to suggest a new date. This shows that she’s into you, and loves spending time with you.
You are probably saying ‘but friends can be like this. My reply to you will be an emphatic no. A female friend will tell you straight up that she’s busy and if she suggests a date, it might not be soonest.
On the other hand, A girl that likes you will try to clear her schedule to go out with you, and when she can’t, she will be very apologetic. If your girl is already behaving like this, congrats man, you are in luck.
She has told her friends about you
Telling her friends about you does not necessarily mean narrating your history to them (though some who tell their friends everything can probably do this lol) but rather it’s more like she has mentioned you a couple of times for one reason or the other or even for no reason sometimes, lol.
If you are the subject matter of long discussions between her and her friends, she likes you. That’s a fact.
Most girls tell their friends and roommates about the guys they like (I used most and not all because some can be very secretive until it’s official between you both).
But still, your name should have come up one way or the other, either they are teasing her with it or something.
Now before you get all jumpy, this goes two ways. You could be the subject matter of a very sarcastic discussion. If this is the case, I’m so sorry.
However, if you are the subject matter of fantasying discussion, then my friend you just found a girl that likes you. You are probably asking me now: ‘How the hell am I going to know?’ It’s simple. Pay attention.
Example: First, she might tell you without knowing.
Hey, I told my friend, Ella, that you can breakdance and like me, she couldn’t believe it. When I showed her your videos, she was in awe.
Note, that they discussed not only your personality but your habits and talents. She even went to the extent of showing them your videos which you must note that you didn’t give to her. So she either saved them from your WhatsApp Status or visited your Instagram page. This proves that the lady likes you.
Secondly, you can find out from the comments of her friends when you come around. You hear something like:
“Nice to finally meet you, Jack. Kate has told us a lot of things about how wonderful you are“.
When you come for her, her friends begin to make teasing sounds. And when you glance at her, she’s blushing to her skull.
This goes to show you that she has one way or the other confided in her friends that she likes you.
She always initiates physical touch when you are in the public
If a lady likes you she would always initiate physical touch. This was confirmed by a renowned researcher in the person of Jack Skafer PhD who established that one of the ways ladies show they like a guy is through physical touch.
So she’s giving you side hugs, pecks, probably cradling your head, tugging your arm, all in public, it means she likes you. It’s a way of saying that she likes you and that you are hers.
Just like men, a lady always knows that she has rivals and competitors, and while she isn’t being the one to woo or probably playing hard to get, she wouldn’t hesitate for a second to tell the world indirectly that you are hers; thus the physical touches.
A friend Daniel stated to me how he knew his ex liked him was because she was always initiating physical touch in public in a bid to steer any competition. This might be your story. If it is, bro, she likes you.
Conversation between you both is effortless and fun
It is a fact that conversations between friends of opposing gender or persons without mutual friends are very much tiring and frustrating. Thus, if the conversation between you and that girl is smooth and effortless – just a host of vibes and chill, then she’s into you.
Mind you, if the conversation is such that you are the one stressing your brain to bring topics for discussion, and all she does is just to input a one-worded reply, then my guy she doesn’t like you.
However, if she makes effort to bring interesting topics for discussion and that by the end of the day, you guys can’t run out of conversation topics, then she likes you.
You are starting to see the real her
Girls are for a fact conscious of opening up, physically or emotionally to a guy. Most times, they care about their behaviour with guys they don’t like because they want to state that they are not his type or his level.
However, if she likes you, she begins to care less about her behaviour, environment and just want to share her real self with you.
Also, she begins to open up emotionally to you. Telling you about her problems, and breaking down in tears before you don’t become a shameful act.
When you guys are eating alone, she doesn’t mind smearing her face with the food, or she doesn’t mind laughing or playing as she should.
Also, she begins to confide you emotionally. Most times she would inform you of her feelings towards some stuff.
She gets vexed when you forget personal details of her life
Once a girl likes you, she will begin to tell you some personal and private information about her life.
Most times you might know a lot about her family without even meeting them because she just keeps sharing about them and more about her life with you.
This would form the bulk of your conversations where she will send treasured memories of her life with you.
Jacinta: I had always wanted to be a lawyer. I remember even participating in debates.
You know I love reading novels.
And what’s more is that, should you forget anything relating to this information, she would really really be offended.
This goes to show she likes you to the moon and back. So she expects you to pay attention to the little details about her.
How could you forget my birthday? I remember telling you. So if Danielle hadn’t asked, I would have thought you remembered.
She has mentioned an event that she wants to go to with you
If a girl likes you, she would always be on the lookout for events that both of you can go to and have fun together.
What makes this significantly different from what a regular friend will give is that when a girl likes you she even offers to sponsor you guys to these events.
Cynthia: Hey Mark, there is this comedy show that is happening this weekend, will you like to go with me. Don’t worry I have covered the ticket.
A girl that loves a guy just wants to document memories with that guy on a lot of occasions.
She wants you to meet her friends and roommates
If a lady asks that you come to meet her roommate and friends, my guy you are in. More often than not a lady would only showcase to her friends and roommates the guys she likes.
What differentiates you from her regular male friends is you being introduced to her close friends. While it is normal for a guy to introduce a girl to his friends, for girls, it’s a ceremony.
A friend once recounted to me an incident with a girl he liked. He escorted her to her house to get something. The dude waited outside unknowingly to the girl. She came back almost immediately.
She questioned why he was standing outside as she wanted to introduce him to her roommate. That was how I knew she liked me and I made the move, he said to me.
She asks a lot of questions
When a girl likes you, she begins to ask a lot of questions about you. Questions such as your likes and dislikes, your spec in ladies, your interests.
What’s more, is that she begins to follow up on your answers. She can even get you a gift that was what you said you prefer or engage in one of your hobbies.
If this is the case, then she likes you straight up. She might even ask you what you like in ladies so that she can adjust to be your perfect spec.
Signs of Fidgeting and nervousness
If a lady fidgets and gets nervous around you, then she likes you. She’s nervous because she doesn’t want to say anything to dissuade you, so, she becomes shy in front of you. She begins to play with her hair or becomes awfully quiet.
A friend, Josh told me a story, how he knew his girl liked him. Another of our friends asked her if she liked Josh, and she became nervous. That was a sign that she liked him and he acted on it. If this is probably your story, she really likes you.
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