10 Reasons why women lose interest in men after sleeping with them
Hey guys. Today, we’ll be taking a look at the reasons why women might lose interest in men after getting physical with them.
It’s no news that both genders crave intimacy every now and them. However, it’s funny how feeling might change after getting intimate with the other gender.
Though both genders can see reasons to withdraw after satisfying their sexual desire, we’ll be focusing on why women actually lose interest after s*x.
10 Reasons why women lose interest in men after s*x
You probably didn’t perform well
This is the major reason why a woman will question her decision to getting intimate with a guy. In as much as you did it to meet your sexual needs, you also need to pleasure her too.
Not performing well can put a red flag in her interest for you.
You didn’t meet her expectations
It’s one thing to perform well, it’s another thing to meet a ladies expectation. A lady who has felt pleasure from another guy more than what you gave to her might be left disappointed.
This is another major reason why a lady may choose to avoid you, simply because you didn’t meet her expectations in bed.
She is feeling ashamed
This is another major reason. This can happen when she never planned to do it (at least not with you) but it happened all of a sudden. Also, it can be because of how you reacted after it.
If she happens to feel ashamed after the whole incident, be rest assured that she will avoid you.
Her feeling just changed
It might not necessarily have to do with what happened last night. It can happen that a change in how she feels about you just coincided with the whole event.
She may be confused
Not every lady considers sleeping with the opposite sex to be fun. It might leave a lot of unanswered questions in her head. Questions like what next? Where is this relationship heading? Will he ditch me for someone else? Etc.
At this point, her distance got nothing to do with you. She is just trying to figure things out by herself. So, she’ll tend to avoid you for a while.
She’s in regret
This may have something to do with you or not. There are so many reasons why a girl might be in regret after this. It may be she cheated on someone to be with you, she was not ready to lose her virginity etc.
So every lady has different reasons why they may be regretting their actions. This will cause her to avoid you.
She’s no longer interested in you
Do you know of guys who just want to get laid with a particular girl and leave her? Yeah, there are ladies like that too. You only attracted her sexually, so she’s gotten what she wanted and no longer interested in you. Move on bro.
You forced her
Whether you define it as rape or not, when her decision to let it continue was as a result of an act of force from your part, she might start avoiding you.
Reasons being that you will look for a way to forcefully persuade her to get it from her again. It is also a sign that you are only after her body.
She thinks it was a mistake
This is one of the reasons that can make her feel ashamed as highlighted above. When she feels it is a mistake, it comes with a feeling that you will probably not respect her because of how easily you got it. So she tends to avoid you.
She heard you gisting your friend about it
This is a huge turn off for ladies. It’s a sign that she means little or nothing to you. With or without confronting you, she’ll start avoiding you.
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